The living cannot understand the state faced by the dead in graves. Neither is there any food in a grave nor water. The only thing that saves there is the wealth (of invocation and contemplation) of Ism-e-Allah Zaat. At the time of death there is a great grief of parting from the loved ones but greater is the fear of punishment in the grave. They are praiseworthy who have died before death and annihilated themselves in the Divine Essence gaining eternal life.